First little kick

I was sitting at the computer actually reading about when people first felt their twins move.   I have been feeling flutters here and there but its so hard to pinpoint if it is truly the babies.   While sitting here I felt a pretty good flutter and then a couple seconds later a definite little kick.   It made me jump.   Its the first time I have felt movement where I know for sure it was one of the babies and not something else.   It made me teary eyed...so amazing Gods miracle of life.   Tomorrow I am 15 weeks, I didn't feel Cassie move till after I was 18 weeks. 

I have been reading posts from some twin chat rooms and I just don't get some of the posters.  Some women will ask questions like....is gaining alot of weight or having a big bump a sign of twins or some other question that members think are stupid so they are snarky and jump down these women's throats and they are so rude.  It blows my mind.  These are mothers of children and they are just being down right nasty and they even seem to be on a high horse because they have had twins.   They have said "Twins are not the trendy thing to do so don't wish for it, its hard work and until you have been in our shoes you won't understand".  I mean really??     Yes, I know its going to be harder than 1 but its not going to be the end of the world like these women act.   I mean I had 1 baby with so many problems, so many hospital visits and surgeries and I never acted like these women.  Yes, it was hard but when your put in a situation you just do what you have to do and you survive.   Cassie's first year was rough but I never thought it was terrible.   If I would have been told before I had her what was in store for me I would have been scared stiff and wonder how I was going to do everything...but when your actually placed in it you just do what needs to be done.      Anyhow, some of these women drive me nuts reading their posts, seeing how mean they are, and their attitudes.  Those boards are not for me.